1. That women are nothing more than play things to be looked at
2. That women have no place in the tech industry
3. That women are only welcomed when we serve a purpose for men
Am I jealous of the booth babes? No. I honestly don't care that they are there as I am more interested in the product. I'm also not put-off by the man to woman ratio resulting in men acting like horny middle schoolers. I am increasingly bothered by the negative attitude that men have toward women in the tech and gaming industry. I recognize that not all men are that way and that the industry on the whole has become better.
I'm hoping this makes sense as I don't have the time to be more thoughtful.
I am thoroughly disgusted by the response of the Jezebel community.
This is something that needs to be attacked from all fronts and this article is a great start. As I've explained to other commenters, there needs to be an ongoing conversation about the sexualization of female characters. Not to mention the virgin/whore dichotomy and the manic pixie dream girl trope.
I would love to play TF2 and have a woman scout or spy. And I would love to see them in the same outfit as their male counterparts, not with boobs or tons of skin all over the place.
I would love to go to a convention where the sexualized cosplay didn't get all of the attention. Where the female developers are given time. I would love for there to not be a niche for women and instead we are integrated into the community.
So let me ask you this, how do I get what I want without pointing out the male privilege? Without explaining the discrepancies? Sure, I can change things with my wallet, but if I'm already not buying and the industry is thriving, then I need another outlet. So for now, we have our voices.
I don't want to lobby for a "niche" knowing that I will just be put off as a little girl. Or told to go read fucking Sailor Moon. I HATE walking into a comic book or video game store and no one asking if I need help, yet when my jock of a boyfriend walks in with me he gets all of the attention. This article is bringing that larger issue to light. I am seen as a woman first, gamer/nerd/geek second. I want a world where I'm called a geek; NOT a lady geek. See the difference?