Side note: when I get really, really drunk I start giving people pet names. That's when I know I should stop drinking/start drinking water.
Real world example: I took my highschool crush on a date once where we went out to eat, watched a movie and theb walked by the river. Later that same year, I took my then-current girlfriend to the same places and did the same thing. i was called unoriginal and she demanded that I take her on a "real date."
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Personally, I never have to worry about smoking while pregnant, because I'm a man, but if I impregnate someone and she wants to smoke, I'm all for it. Medically speaking, marijuana is fairly benign and I can't wait until this stupid prohibition is over.
For the record, I am a virgin. I also have not been raped, but have been sexually assaulted.
Also, this isn't relevant, but I've only kissed women whose names start with the letter "A." I think it's just a weird coincidence but i figured I'd share.
Somehow, I've always been good with computers. My grandma first introduced me to them when I was 3, and I was able to competently use a computer before I learned how to write. Growing up, I was curious about everything - especially computers and math. When my parents split, my family went from middle class to well below the poverty line instantly. Clothes were deemed a waste of money and we were told to make them last because we didn't have enough money to buy new ones. My mom worked two jobs and went to school full-time so she could provide for my brothers and I, but we were still so poor that we couldn't afford anything besides food. We already had a computer that was a few years old and I begged my mom not to sell it. I tried to learn everything I could about the computer because it was the only thing I had.
When I was 12, I saw my mom crying because we were so far in debt with the house that she would have to quit school and get a third job. I wanted to help my mom out and keep her in school so I got a summer job and I earned enough to pay for my mom's textbooks. Since I bought the books, and because I had no toys or anything to play with, I decided to read through them. I taught myself college algebra in a week and then tutored my mom when she needed help. We got dial-up that same year with those free AOL cds and I discovered I could learn so much more. I taught myself HTML, I found out what porn was, but ultimately, I discovered that I could make.a ton of money if I learned how to program computers.
Three years later, I was a sophomore in high school and I pretty much hated everything/everyone. People made fun of me for being poor and my family still didn't have enough money to buy clothes. I wore a combination of hand-me-downs, clothes from Goodwill and an outfit that my Grandma bought me.
Then, my worst nightmare happened; we had to sell the house. My family was homeless for six months. We stayed with friends or relatives until my mom was able to rent somewhere that was extremely cheap and didn't do credit checks. The house wasn't level, the shower had no hot water and I lived in a walk-in closet, but at least I had somewhere to live.
By the time I was a Junior in high school, I was so pissed off at the world because of what I had been through. I had heard that cyberterrorism was an easy way to make money, so I devoted all of my time to learning how to do it. When I was 16, I created a virus as a test that shut down every single computer in my school district. I had cost the school a huge amount of time and money, but I didnt care. I also broke the encryption on my school's network and sold the access key to my peers so I could have lunch money. I used my knowledge to hack into the system, remove the web filter and set up a wireless bridge to my friend's house because he didnt have internet access and wanted to download anime. I created a backdoor that would let me access the network without anyone noticing, and I took out the PA system because it annoyed me.
The school spent a huge amount of money trying to upgrade their security, but every time they did, I was able to break it. By the second semester of my Junior year, the school decided enough was enough and decided they would immediately arrest anyone they suspected of cyberterrorism. I didn't care, though, because by that time I was so far ahead of them and I had a group of five guys helping me out. I never got caught.
Then, one day, I was in my computer class and my teacher handed us an assignment and started explaining it. By the time he finished explaining it, I had already finished coding it. I told him that I was done and, surprisingly, he wasn't condescending toward me. He looked at my code and then looked at the code the book had for its answer.My code was more efficient, more readable and it only took me 11 minutes to code (the assignment was supposed to last a week). He said that in his 15 years of teaching he had never seen anyone code that fast. After another week in his class, he came up with an idea.
He wanted me, a junior in high school, to teach an advanced programming class. Of course, technically he was the teacher, but all he handled was grading. I found appropriate textbooks, made lesson plans, and taught five students (the same five who had previously helped me destroy the network security) advanced programming. Eventually he found out that we were responsible for the attacks on the school's system and he made me a deal: I wouldn't get arrested if I helped him fix the holes in the security. I gladly accepted the offer and continued to teach my fellow classmates how to program.
The moral of the story is that my teacher respected me because of my work, and because of that I went from a cyberterrorist to a respectable membet of society. I never wore nice clothes (I couldn't afford them), yet my teacher took me seriously. The lesson plans I created were made into a real course the next year and the school now has some of the best security and best courses available in the state. Additionally, two of the students I taught went on to work at Microsoft and I guarantee you that you've used something they have created.
If you don't take people seriously because of their attire, you may miss out on teaching someone not only how to learn, but you may save them from being destructive.
Thank you for reading this.