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@katieoh: No, I missed that one (link please). Actually, I dont let it all get to me like I did at one time. One of the advantages of age and experience is that I have learned to pick my battles. I can get mad, or I can do something about it. Being a goal oriented person, I tend to do something about it, if I can. If I have to get angry though, I get MAD. (Why do it if you arent going to do the HELL out of it?)
Imagine how annoying it would be if a poster depicting a naked/clothed attractive person would have a camera like that. (being inclusive and not saying just woman cause we all know Curves and Software Goddess like to check out hunks)
@aerospaceman: If Hunk=Good looking, then count me out. I cant speak for anyone else, but for me, the BIG THREE must haves in a partner are Humor, Intelligence and Passion. With those, he can be a toad and I will love the hell out of him.
@Curves: Really? Physical appearance plays _no_ role? Are you being truthful or aspirational?
Yes, gender differences and all of that, but I can't believe that you've managed to completely cut the hard-wiring that makes your eyebrows arch when a hottie walks by.
@92BuickLeSabre: Truthful, in as much as I can be. I know its hard to believe, but I am ALL about substance, and not flash. Beauty is only skin deep while ugly comes from within. Shit in a pretty package is still just poop.
Last time I checked, it was the 21st century. I remember hearing about a neighbor who smacked his wife years ago, she divorced him like a week later. I didn't think this was still such an epidemic, divorce isn't really frowned upon anymore.
@darkstar: domestic violence is WAY down over the last 20 years, no doubt about it. Check the chart below (the most recent graphic I could find). But it's still a problem and rates of domestic violence generally go up in times of economic hardship so perhaps this is more to remind people that the issue hasn't gone away, and that it can come back.
@darkstar: One in every 4 women will be abused in her lifetime, and in many cases, she is financially unable to leave her abuser, usually due to children.
@darkstar: Yeah, it would be nice if it were that simple. However, there certainly isn't any shortage of power-trippy assholes these days, and it's not always as easy to get away from them as the movies would have us believe.
@Noobs-R-Us: I think suggesting that "they should show that also" just distracts from the issue. Females are far more likely to be victims of domestic abuse than men are, and near as I can tell men are more often the victims only in same-sex relationships. I'm all for recognizing that domestic abuse crosses gender and sexual demographics, but that doesn't mean they shouldn't put up a poster that brings attention to the issue just because it only represents the majority of cases and not every case.
@Noobs-R-Us: I agree that it happens and its not reported nearly as often as it is with women, but in 95% of cases the woman is the victim. [www.stopvaw.org]
@Curves: I'm not a huge fan of that site you use as a reference. First, the 95% figure seems high - most of the stats I've seen have ranged from 65%-85%. Obviously the figures vary widely when you start to include domestic violence against teens (non-partner violence) and exactly how one defines "violence." Which leads me to my second issue with that website; they suggest that in "even" that 5% they claim where the man is a victim, it is justified. I thought we'd finally gotten past that "she had it coming" argument. To have it turned around to justify violence against men makes the whole site lose credibility for me.
I wish there weren't so much hostility toward FB users on these forums. I'm just using it because it's a handy authentication mechanism. I don't think my login method says anything about how I talk.
So show some acceptance before I start knifing people or sending them virtual puppies.
You know, I think I'm gonna go set up a Facebook account now that will be my "husband". Fake-husband account will immediately get commenting ability and on Gizmodo/Gawker media network because some one errrrr like in charge thought it would be great to trash this place with unscreened commenters.
Then, my "fake husband" account will call me a stupid c**t and he will be banned. Then I will find that he is already having an affair with a Jezebel gal because he wanted a brunette. Then I will proceed to disable is Facebook account, thus killing him.
No wait...that wouldn't work I don't like women! Que scenario 2. I set up 5 Facebook accounts to get automatic commenting status on Gizmodo/Gawker media networl, they are all women and all want to have group.....
@webster32: If one were actually dedicated to the act and if he placed as much effort into suicide as he did murdering that poor woman he wouldn't be such a miserable fuck. Well, he's still miserable, but he would also be dead which wouldn't put a damper on anyone's day.
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But you do need to nail the point home, or perhaps, staple it home:
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So show some acceptance before I start knifing people or sending them virtual puppies.
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Then, my "fake husband" account will call me a stupid c**t and he will be banned. Then I will find that he is already having an affair with a Jezebel gal because he wanted a brunette. Then I will proceed to disable is Facebook account, thus killing him.
No wait...that wouldn't work I don't like women! Que scenario 2. I set up 5 Facebook accounts to get automatic commenting status on Gizmodo/Gawker media networl, they are all women and all want to have group.....
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I'm speechless.... ;)
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You've hit us up with some long posts today! :)
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God that is so true. Im frackin working right now. At least the cops love our products...
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