Ask Giz: Four Loko Frenzy, Budget Sextapes, and an Identity CrisisProfessor Gizmodo10/27/10 3:00pm1581EditPromoteDismissUndismissHideGo to permalinkA friend turned drunken thief. A couple looking for some on-camera action. A digital dater racked with shame. You seem guilty, this week, readers. But our consciences are filthy too—all aboard the empathy train. It's time for healing.