today is the third anniversary of the death of my best friend. i still visit his myspace page and write things on it on his birthday and the anniversary of his death. it's one of the only reasons i still have a myspace account. trust me, this is a really great, important idea. people who use facebook (or myspace) use it to keep in contact with people from distant places, and having a memorial page for a friend can be a very cathartic thing for a group of people spread out all over the world. i wish my friend had hopped on the facebook bandwagon back in 2006, because i would give anything to have another opportunity to look at his face and see what he used to think. #facebookdeath
@Katherine M Cox: I still send IMs to someone 2 years after their death. Its actually a great source of comfort to me. Somehow, I think he gets them even in heaven.
God must have awesome Wifi. #facebookdeath
@collectiveego: It may be denial, but, its what I can bear. Who says denial is a bad thing anyway? Most people operate under at least some form of selective denial. Acceptance isnt always a good thing. If I accepted it, I would simply fall to pieces. #facebookdeath
@Coolmodo: Considering the brouhaha that happened when Facebook users tried to delete their own pages, I assume that page deletion is a hassle that FB would like to avoid as much as humanly possible. #facebookdeath
@Coolmodo: It's merely the modern equivalent of allowing friends and loved ones to memorialize and pay respects to their deceased. I choose to see it as a way for spiritual beliefs and practices to "catch up" to modern social practices.
A cousin of mine, who passed away several years ago in sudden tragic circumstances, has a memorial myspace page. The thousands of family, friends, California firefighters, and emergency services personnel who knew him contributed to it. It has become a loving tribute to a young man who was deeply loved, and many stll visit it to "tell him" things he would have liked. It is, to me, the next step from visiting a grave to commune with the deceased spiritually. #facebookdeath
He was one of the biggest contributors to modern music in the 20th century.
Les Paul, we salute you for giving us the music we truly enjoy today. Without you there are no Foo Fighters, Van Halen, Chicago, or rock n roll for that matter.
@Super Moose: You're an asshole. Les Paul DID invent today's version of the electric guitar. the Les Paul guitar, is not JUST named after him, he invented THAT guitar. He also invented multi-track recording, and the technique of adding another head to a tape recorder, inventing what we today call tape delay. Les Paul was also a musician. Who are you to downplay the death of a person without whom modern rock as we know it today simply would not exist. Save your nitpicking for another post.
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God must have awesome Wifi. #facebookdeath
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[thegravebook.com] #facebookdeath
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They then take that page created by the newly deceased and kinda "bronze" it for the friends of the fallen.
Does it make a little more sense to you? #facebookdeath
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j/k
I understand the idea, but I don't understand why the pages can't just be deleted? #facebookdeath
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A cousin of mine, who passed away several years ago in sudden tragic circumstances, has a memorial myspace page. The thousands of family, friends, California firefighters, and emergency services personnel who knew him contributed to it. It has become a loving tribute to a young man who was deeply loved, and many stll visit it to "tell him" things he would have liked. It is, to me, the next step from visiting a grave to commune with the deceased spiritually. #facebookdeath
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If you were offended by that Twilight comment, then I apologize. #facebookdeath
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My guitar gently weeps....
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R.I.P. you crazy diamond.
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Les Paul, we salute you for giving us the music we truly enjoy today. Without you there are no Foo Fighters, Van Halen, Chicago, or rock n roll for that matter.
Thank you sir.
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